My dad, My Fajah, My Heroes

I am lucky enough to celebrate two men today.  My dad and my Fajah.  Both men are heroes in my eyes but for very different reasons.

My dad has always been someone that I see as indestructible.  He's the strongest man I know.  I am completely convinced that he can fix absolutely anything.  From vacuum cleaners to cars and most recently...riding lawnmowers.  He's a beast....kind of.  and - he's always been there to help in any way possible.  I'm so thankful he's my dad.

My Fajah poured wisdom and love into my life.  He always told me the truth...even when it was hurtful.  And - he always wanted what was best for me.  He made me family when he didn't have to.  He loved me like I was his own and everyone knew that I was his daughter.    He was a constant in my life.  To say that our relationship was special is an understatement.  Knowing him was a gift.  I spent most holidays with him and his family.  Father's Day (because we celebrated with my dad on his birthday instead of Father's Day.), Easter, Mother's Day, and Christmas Eve.  Christmas Eve was my favorite.  He loved me.  And - I loved him.  So - today...today is a difficult day.  It's one I would've spent with him.  And - it's a day I choose to celebrate his life, his influence, and his love.  I'm eternally grateful for him....and for his amazing family.

Some of you may not understand my relationship with Rick and Pam.  Some of you have even said it's weird.  But - I pray that one day you'll take a chance on a kid in your Sunday School class.  Or - one that you come across in church.  Or - one that may be your child's friend. Show that kid love.  Show them the love they may not be getting from their parents.  Show that kid what a Christian home should look like.  Be honest and tough on them but also encourage them to serve the Lord with whatever gifts He's given them.  Be a constant in their life...because not everyone is lucky enough to have that at home.  I don't come from a Christian home.  My home life was very different from others around me.  And - even though I met Rick and Pam after high school they still stepped in and truly loved me.

So - to all you dads and Fajahs out there... Happy Father's/Fajah's Day!!  Having you in our lives makes them BETTER.  And - life without you just isn't the same.  

And - to all of you who are missing your dad today...please know you are being prayed for.  I know today is a tough day and I'm so, so sorry for that.

A little joyful and sorrowful all at the same time, 

James